Even if you feel like you may deserve what’s happening to you. You do NOT deserve it! There are just things in life we go through that we have to in order to build thicker skin for tougher times coming. It builds us to become stronger, wiser and helps reveal self worth! Unfortunate events also happen to remove you and save you from something that could of been worse! It’s like the movie the ” Butterfly Effect”. I know, pretty scary to think about … But that’s how life is. One decision in life will redirect you to a whole new path. Think about it like this…

Ok, if you were to choose a different relationship over the one you choose, life would have been totally different! Maybe in a good way maybe in a bad way. But it would have been very different. Therefore, every choice you make in life choose wisely. If you happen to make the wrong choice it’s ok. There are manny more choices to make in life. That is how we learn to make better decisions in the future. After we make mistakes. Just neverrr give up!

If your current significant other does not value you or just simply doesn’t treat you right and doesn’t respect you. Sorry to say you are waisting your time. There are always other men/ woman that would love to have someone like you! They would value you and make you smile daily. There is always someone out there that has a good heart that may also be looking for real love because perhaps their relationship was like yours where the other person didn’t value them as well. There is someone for everyone! You want that refreshing feeling in the morning looking forward for another day. If you don’t feel that you know it’s time. I know thinking about starting over really sucks but… It ok to start over! It doesn’t matter your age at all! Or how many children you have either with one person or multiple past relationships. Just don’t give up on love. It’s such a beautiful thing to have!

Always respect yourself and attract people for your genuine personality. Social media has made it very easy to ruin your image because once you post, That’s it! Post photos of yourself with self respect so that you can attract a man/ woman that would respect you at first sight! Becareful what you write on a post. As a post can push away people just with one post. I say this because I have pushed people away once I see they sound mean or evil. Publish positive things or fun things. Not making fun of people because we all know that’s not nice…

Fix yourself up! Spend a little bit of money on yourself once in a while. Do your hair even if you don’t feel up to it. Smile and greet people. If you don’t feel up to go anywhere, push yourself! Ok, pushhhh yourself! Just do it! Don’t think about it. Go to the mall, a walk in the park, the gym, to a friend or family’s house to visit. Interact with people. Don’t let yourself be alone in the darkest moments. Sleeping during the day is NOT allowed if depressed. Do all this and you will help yourself from a deeper depression.

If you are in a dangerous relationship where it’s not easy to just get out or leave the relationship when you are unhappy… Please view my other blog titled “Dangerously in Love”. You need immediate action! There will be some tips how to safely remove you and children out of a dangerous home.